Lena Hall
A memory of a favorite person
I was back from the war in Vietnam, 1970 and still had a
year of service left. After a brief
leave at home, I was sent to Fort Knox, Kentucky where I worked in a photo lab
printing and enlarging negatives. I
didn’t mind the work at all but living in the barracks with forty or more men
was nerve wracking for an introvert/extrovert.
I needed space and time alone.
The room at the
barracks was divided into open cubicles. There were eight of us in double bunks
crammed together at the back of the room.
The other seven and I were not compatible at all. They drank every night, came in drunk every
weekend, and gambled on the floor in clusters all the time. There was always loud music into the night. On top of all that, the base trained
artillery nightly. Which meant that loud
noises were heard, and me, just back from Vietnam, was still gun shy. Many nights I would hear the artillery and
jump from bed and run for the bunkers and safety. It was an automatic response. I was miserable.
Here I was alone, living in a situation I found deplorable. I needed help.
I NEEDED TRANSPORTATION!
I had two friends in the lab that were in the
same situation. About a week later, the
three of us rode a bus to a Volkswagen dealership in Louisville. We all bought 1970 Karma Ghia’s. My friends bought convertibles and I, a two-
door coup. I paid $2800.00 cash with
money I saved from my tour overseas. Yes.
You read those figures correctly.
I now had freedom. There are no words to describe the feeling of
paying cash for a new car and then driving it off the lot that same day. None.
I drove the long way back to the base. I discovered things
that day. One was the town of
Elizabethtown and the other was the Severns Valley Baptist Church. The next
Sunday, I visited that Baptist Church. After
a few more visits, I joined the church, which I’d been taught was the proper
thing to do. I made friends and joined
the choir and a Sunday school. Life felt
normal except for my situation on the base in the barracks, which was still
just as deplorable.
Before long, I ended up sleeping in my car, most nights,
because my seven bunk mates would harass me. At first, I slept in the base
parking lot and then later I ended up sleeping in the parking lot behind the
church. I mentioned this to a man in the
choir one day and he suggested I move off the base. He then introduced me to a lady he was kin to,
Mrs. Lena Hall, who was living alone just a few blocks from the church. She was not that sure of renting to a
stranger, nor I from a lady that had violets in vases everywhere and crocheted
arm covers on all the furniture. After
our visit we learned we had a lot in common and we agreed to try it for a
while.
I went to my sergeant and explained to him I was moving off
base to Elizabethtown. I gave him her name and phone number. The sergeant explained that single men were
not allowed to live off base unless it was with some relative. I said, rashly, “She is my grandmother.” He called while I was standing there before I
had time to let her know what I told him.
I was scared. She answered, “Yes,
he is my grandson.” Wow! I knew this was the best thing ever, and, I
knew Mrs. Hall and I would be great friends. I moved off base.
She made room in the corner of her basement for a bed and a dresser with
an old quilt draped over a wire, for privacy.
It was comfortable. Eventually
she invited me upstairs to watch TV with her.
We became fast friends. I admired some hand punched rugs on her floor
which she had made. She taught me how to
make them.
Because of Mrs. Hall, I developed a love for folk art and rekindled
my desire to return to college and finish my art degree.
I took her places on
weekends. I used to laugh at her because she began leaving her purse on the
stand by her chair, next to the front door, and the very mention of, “Would you
like to go somewhere?” would say, “Let me find my purse.” Then reach over, grab
it and say, “Here it is. Ready.”
Once, we saw an old weaving loom. I expressed the desire to own one and learn
to weave. She told me stories of someone
in her family that wove, reassuring me that we could learn also. She called her son, Jodie Hall, who traveled
around Kentucky and asked him to keep his eye out for a loom. He found one way up in the woods somewhere in
the area at an estate sale. An elderly
couple were giving up the farm. The loom
was in parts, in a pile sitting next to the barn. Jodie reassured me that if anything was
missing, he could probably make the lost part. Everything was there, however. I bought it for $13.00 because no one else bid
on it. I should have bid lower, (ha)!
Jodie helped me move it to his mother’s basement. We learned to warp it and then to weave. Mrs.
Hall spent hours sewing rag strips for me to weave. We made rag rugs and sold them at a Flea
market.
On the ceiling of her basement she kept a quilt frame and
often would sit quilting while I learned to weave. One day, I decided that I would like to paint
a quilt. I bought a white sheet and we
stretched it on her quilting frame so I could paint easier. I painted one for her with red flowers, her
favorite, taking it off the frame to measure how it was fitting on the bed and
back to the frame. When finished she and
I drew patterns for the quilting. We
bought the filler and put the quilt together before she did the intricate quilting.
Then we made one for my mother in blue.
Her daughter, Alene and her husband were members of a
square-dancing club and would go square dancing on the weekends. I soon joined them. I had never, really, square danced before but
quickly loved it. There was never any trouble finding a partner. I loved hearing the caller chanting,
“Allemande left and do si do, roll away to a half sashay, ladies in, men
sashay. Face your partner and a right and left grand.” Watching the ladies (and men) in their bright
matching costumes and club colors was always a treat. Of course, Mrs. Hall made an outfit for me,
too. This became a regular on Saturday
nights dressing up and traveling around this area of Kentucky and Indiana.
This elderly lady and I in my twenties were a match made in
heaven. I relieved her of the loneliness
of living alone and she saved me from a deplorable living arrangement in the
barracks.
I hated leaving her at the end of my tour of duty. I even went to Berea, Kentucky and applied
for jobs, to no avail. It’s a good thing
I did return home to continue schooling because I never would have met my
Frances.
We kept in touch for a while, and even made a visit with my
wife, once, but I was never able to return and visit her again. I wish I had made the effort more because she
was a large part of who I am today. She
made me see myself as the artist I am.
Thank you, Mrs. Hall for telling that sergeant I was your grandson.
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I still have that blue quilt, hung it on the window at the sugarmill when Carl and I got married. And I have loved hearing those tales of you and Mrs Hall over and over.
ReplyDeleteSorry brother had to destroy it....but that is that. Glad there is some left to salvage.
DeleteWhat a lovely and heart warming story. 💕
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessing in your life she was!! Wow! And you were to her, too, no doubt. Love your stories. I'm always so pleasantly surprised at what I don't know about you.
ReplyDeleteYou are such a sweet and special friend.
DeleteThis is a wonderful story! You are an incredible artist. I remember the time Owen and I came with Jane and John to your place and you had that big loom set up. I had never been that close to one and was fascinated by what you were creating.
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