Saturday, March 25, 2023

POLISHED MAHOGANY

Proverbs 14:13     Even in laughter the heart may ache, and joy may end in grief. 

Polished Mahogany was a hero in the neighborhood where I grew up.   She could make anyone laugh.  “Laughing clears your sinus, darlin’,” she would cackle, “Everybody knows that we need to clear our heads occasionally.  There is nothing better than a good old knee bending, back breaking, snorting laugh to clear the sinus.” 

Auntie M, as we called her, was in her late seventies, never kin but I felt as if she were family.  She lived next door to me while growing up and I was at her house as much as my own.

Polished Mahogany was an artist.  She could paint anything, and she did.  At least once every three months she would change the décor of her house.  “They are speaking to me, darlin’.  Telling me I need more color in my life,” she would say and then lie prone on her stomach with her arms stretched above her head waiting to receive the vision and meditate with the voices she often heard.

Upon receiving her message Auntie M. would be a bundle of energy.  She would seek out all the children in the neighborhood and declare, “Go to the back room, find my box of exotic beads in the back of the closet.”  Or “Quick, find my paint brushes, we need to paint.  Hurry before I lose my vision.”  We would scamper everywhere gathering up supplies before the mood was lost.

We always loved what she painted, and the stories she told, but not our parents (although they would not say anything for fear of losing the best babysitter they ever had). 

“Children are my inspiration,” Auntie M. would tell them. “You can’t make things look good without children around.  I breathe in their energy and glorious things happen.”

Once she painted the house’s interior fuchsia and orange with lime green and purple geometric accents.  Another time she was in a “Picasso” mood, and we painted murals on the walls that looked like Picasso’s ladies, all triangular and out of sorts.  Then there was the “melancholy, monochromatic” mood. The entire house was painted shades of purple, both inside and out.  Every room and every piece of furniture was purple.  The dining room had purple curtains and a purple shag rug.  There was a purple glass table with grapes on the purple iron legs and purple plaid cushions on the seats of the purple chairs.  Even the plates, glasses and silverware were purple.  The kitchen had purple counter tops and cabinets as well as a purple sink, stove, and refrigerator.  Bless her heart, she even dyed her blond cocker spaniel purple and called her Grape.

 My favorite was the time she created a rain forest. 

Trees suddenly began appearing on her outside porch columns and all the rooms had a jungle décor complete with all the animals and snakes.  We neighborhood children loved running through her rain forest house searching each nook and cranny for treasures waiting to be discovered.

Once, Auntie M. disappeared for a week or so and we assumed she was visiting family or on vacation.  Or, just in a mood to disappear.  When she returned, she quietly gathered us around her and said, “Today we must paint everything black. Dark times are ahead,” she whispered.  We didn’t understand but we did as she suggested.  We gathered the supplies needed and began painting the walls and ceiling of her favorite room since she decided that was the only room that needed this gloomy decor.

 When all was done, she insisted we hurry home and dress in our darkest clothes. She handed each of us a note for our parents as we left.  We were to meet her in this special room after supper, with our parents.  

We found Auntie M. lying still in the middle of the floor in the darkened room, lit candles surrounding her angelic body, completely shrouded in white silk.  She had painted an altar on the wall.  

There was a note.  “My darlin’ children, I have gone to the great artist in the sky and shall not see you again until you reach heaven.  Never lose your inner child. I love white calla lilies, darlings.  Don’t be sad, rejoice in my life well-loved and lived.

 Kisses till the beyond, Auntie M.

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Thursday, March 2, 2023


BONNIE BRADY                                                                                                                                   
It's rodeo season here in Houston.  Thought I should share this story.                             
                                                                                                         

Bonnie Brady is a good ole’ Louisiana girl, born and bred.  As a child, she had trees to climb, creeks to explore, secret places to hide under the canopy of pines and most importantly, horses to ride.  Bonnie loved horses; in fact, she was given one as her first birthday present by her grandfather.    She grew up on horses riding as often as possible.   When she couldn't sleep at night, Bonnie would walk out to the pasture and just lie on the back of her favorite horse, staring at the stars, telling secrets to the moon.  Sometimes her mother would find her stretched out on the horse reading under the shade of a tree. 

She was raised by a single mother and knew next to nothing about her father, often wishing he could be around.  She shared this secret dream with the moon and her horse, Goldie, on those nights when she was restless and unable to sleep. 

Bonnie loves everything Louisiana.  In fact, she has a small tattoo of a crawfish in a gators mouth on her left arm and one in the shape of Louisiana on her right – got it one time in New Orleans at Mardi Gras, against her mother’s wishes.

When Bonnie was ten, her mama shared how she used to be a barrel racer and followed rodeo circuits.   She took her to rodeos in the area, especially Mr. Ted Johnson's in Hineston, Louisiana. 

As she grew older Bonnie’s friends would gather at a friend’s farm and ride together in the Grand Entry.  Once she even got to carry the American flag.  By the time Bonnie was fourteen she was barrel racing just like her mama.  It became her passion and, besides, it attracted boys, good old cowboys.  Strong muscular cowboys.  Muscular, bull riding cowboys.   I don't know which she loved most, the bulls or the cowboys riding the bulls, but Bonnie loved that part of the rodeo the best.   

This worried her mama; afraid her daughter was following in her footsteps.

The dream of any cowgirl following the circuit of rodeos is to be the Rodeo Queen.  When Bonnie was seventeen her dream was fulfilled.  You would think she was Dale Evans the way she strutted around on her horse waving to the crowd.   Yet, she was unhappy.  She wished for her daddy to see her.

  She questioned her mama about him.  Bonnie’s mother just said that her father worked offshore before he died.  When Bonnie inquired as to why there weren’t any pictures of him, she gave mysterious answers.  The only information Bonnie ever really knew was that it was a short marriage.  

It wasn’t until she secretly went through her mother’s closet one day, that she disclosed her father’s name and background.  Buried deep in a shoe box was a wedding certificate.  Bonnie discovered his name was Davis Brown from Houston.  Digging deeper in the hidden shoe box she learned that he never worked offshore but that he had been a bull rider following the circuit, never making it big.   She also found his picture.  Tall, dark, and handsome, with coal black hair, blue eyes, and the most wonderful smile she had ever seen, just like those tall, muscular cowboys she was crazy about.  

Bonnie wanted to know more.  She forced her mother to talk about this mysterious Davis Brown.  Her mother explained that she met him at the Houston Rodeo and she, “was smitten by his coal black hair, his muscular torso, and those blue eyes – oh, those blue eyes!”  They married after three dates, and she became pregnant immediately.  He left her, just a month before she gave birth, running off with another cowgirl.  “I divorced him and shut him out of my mind, moving back to Louisiana, with my parents, to raise you, Bonnie.”

In 1996, when she was twenty, Bonnie moved to Texas, hoping to find her daddy.  She was following the circuit as a barrel rider when she met a man that reminded her of the mysterious tall, dark, and handsome Davis Brown.  

Johnny Brady was a professional bull rider from Amarillo, Texas.  He was tall, muscular, and handsome, with mysterious sky-blue eyes.  She admired his strength and strong morals.  Deciding he was a keeper, they dated.  Eventually, Bonnie married him, upsetting her mother. But Johnny wasn’t at all like Davis Brown. 

Johnny and Bonnie now have three children.  When time permits, Bonnie, Johnny, and the kids travel the PBR circuit together.  

One day while watching him practice on their ranch, Bonnie decided to try bull riding herself, against Johnny’s’ better judgement.  This woman was a determined woman.  She became quite good and wanted to do more.  Johnny was impressed, deciding to be her coach.  

These days, she rides bulls in the small rodeos.

Her current goal is to become the first female professional bull rider. 

Bonnie has also added to her tattoos.  She now has a small lone star under the gator and one in the shape of Texas under the Louisiana outline. 

She is one happy Texas cowgirl.

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