Almond Sugar
Psalm 150:4 …praise him with the strings and flute.
Almond Sugar is not like the rest of her family who should be medicated and placed in a padded room. She is normal.
Almond Sugar
Psalm 150:4 …praise him with the strings and flute.
Almond Sugar is not like the rest of her family who should be medicated and placed in a padded room. She is normal.
MY FAMILY
Proverbs 1:8 Hear, my son, your father’s instructions, and forsake not your mother’s teachings.
It has been said that Southern families are known for being a colorful sort of people. Southern politician's families even more
so. Then why should anyone be surprised
if my family looked like an 8 box of Crayola Crayons (that's counting the
dogs). We were different, brilliant, and
nontoxic, and oh, so much fun.
My mother was articulate, literary, and well trained for
public life. She was a scholar, loved
reading, writing and entertaining. She loved the
arts. She, also, required lots of alone
time. Being a Methodist minister's
daughter, she had lived her entire life “in a fishbowl” and was well suited for
being scrutinized by everyone, relishing the idea of surprise as to their
evaluations. She too loved jokes and
loved telling stories. Mother felt drawn
to the man who had never known the genteel ways she had been taught, perhaps
exercising her independence by rebelling against the tight reins her parents
had kept on her and perhaps due to her idealistic hope of refining the rough
edges of this common man.
As a young couple, they were perfectly suited or so one thought. On the one hand, there was the idealistic country boy out to conquer the world, who had never used a telephone until the day he arrived at college. On the other hand, there was the young lady who was used to Sunday socials, attending plays and concerts and teas in the warm summer afternoons, or sneaking off to swim on a Sunday afternoon, a known sin for a preacher's daughter. My daddy was a home body, he had never traveled outside of central Louisiana, except during the war when he was sent to China, and really didn't care much for it. Mother loved to travel. She was used to it since Methodist preachers moved every three years back then. No two backgrounds could ever have been more different. Yet, there was a commonality between these two. Both had a keen sense of humor and playfulness; both were strong willed, though mother had been trained to acquiesce to the male in the family. Both loved to talk at the same time. One never really listened to the other, but continued to talk over and above the other, succeeding to communicate his or her wishes only by endless repetitions. To this competing conversation at the dinner table, we four children added our voices creating a cacophony intolerable for most, but the norm for us.
We went to
Brennan's for a meal, white tablecloths and napkins, jazz music in the
background, and fine silverware. I even wore a tie.
A sharp contrast to the rowdy meals we had at home. We spent the night at a hotel on Canal
Street. The next day was spent at the
Audubon Zoo after some beignets at Cafe du Monde.
She even took me to Preservation Hall. We traveled Bourbon Street while I had a lesson about the evils that lurked behind those doors while laughing at the drunken characters we met. She told me that someday I might want to attend Mardi Gras in New Orleans, but I should wait until college which I did. The next day we boarded a plane and flew home. I was now a man of the world, I thought.
A few years later, when I was twelve, while staying with
daddy in Baton Rouge, he took me to a bar/restaurant downtown just a block from
the Heidelberg Hotel. He said I should
learn about Beatniks. These were young
people who were part of a social group in the 1950s and early 1960s that
rejected the traditional rules of society and encouraged people to express
themselves through art. We sat at a
back-corner table, wine for daddy and a coke for me, listening to the young
people. Some played their guitar, others
read a poem. One sang a song of
rebellion. After each performance, the
fingers would snap in approval. The room
was dark with wine bottles as candle holders and black lights around the black
walls. Everyone there wore black
clothing with berets or scarves. Most everyone was smoking. I, being naïve, thought, they were only
cigarettes. Daddy didn't think the smoke
would be a problem since we wouldn't be staying for long, and it was important
to have this experience. I was
fascinated by these people that I had heard of but never seen.
I might have even
dressed the same except that I owned no black clothing. Blue jeans and cowboy boots with a western
shirt was my attire those days.
At the barn, we made hideouts and tunnels in the hay loft, and read books away from prying eyes. My brother hid in the loft and skipped school and discovered smoking. We climbed trees and hung by our knees on the topmost branches, well, I did anyway.
We were free range children.
We made rafts in newly created drainage ditches and floated around the ditches. We laughed at the table and walked around the rooms like Groucho. I was frequently on my horse galloping
around the lane that circled our cotton and corn fields, pretending I was in
the Kentucky Derby. Our only rule was to be home for supper and before
dark. I’m glad I grew up in a family that
was different, brilliant, nontoxic, and fun.
The yard was bare of any grass. There were chickens scratching about on the hard, dry earth enclosed by a fence that long ago had lost its usefulness. The house was an unpainted dogtrot that had seen better days but still had a little life left in it, maybe. The sign, crudely painted on an old sheet of plywood in the front yard said: Madame Zulu Voodoo Jones, Faith healer, Palm Reader, Treater of all illnesses, Remover of the Devil, Reader of the stars.
The old hound dogs greeted me at what used to be a gate before I
could get out of the car. One obviously
had recently given birth to a litter from the looks of her and the other looked
as if he could tear the tires right off the vehicle if so inclined. He began making his rounds, barking, growling,
and relieving himself on my right rear tire while the female sat scratching and
trying to make the puppies leave her alone.
There was someone sitting in a rocking chair in the open space between rooms, a box fan in one corner and a TV balanced in an open window. An extension cord was dangling precariously out the window and across the porch to the fan.
I
rolled down my window enough to speak.
“Is Madame Zulu in,” I shouted, “I would like….”
The woman jumped, startled by my intrusion. “Yes, yes, don’t leave. I will get her,” interrupted the animated woman as she spat upon the ground. “Get out of the way, dogs, we got company,” she hissed. Tripping across the extension cord she hurriedly rushed into the house. I waited while the guards continued manning their post.
About ten minutes later, the same woman, (or her twin sister) returned dressed in a garish dress, wrapping a bandana around her head. She tugged at the skirt and rolled it up enough to walk barefoot around the chicken droppings while fastening a metal belt made from beer tabs around her waist. In her best “Haitian” accent she began a singsong monologue as she ushered me upon the porch. “Welcome, welcome, mon amis. Yes, I am the Madame. Welcome, welcome. Yes, I can read your palm. I can tell you do not need a healing for you have no major illness. $20.00 before we gaze into the crystal ball. Come, come in mon.”
I hesitated, “No. You must pay first,” she smiled toothlessly while grasping my arm tighter.
I hunched my shoulders, my empty palms facing up trying to explain that I did not wish a reading today and did not have $20.00. I mainly wanted to know her prices for future references.
She turned on me with a vengeance that would make the devil himself take notice and forgetting her Haitian accent cursed me for interrupting her soap opera while calling the dogs and reaching for a broom.
I twisted my ankle as I stumbled down the steps, landing right in the middle of the fresh chicken droppings. The dogs surrounded me, barking madly, while she swung wildly with a broom barely missing my head several times. She continued swinging and cursing as I stumbled over the chickens, causing them to cackle and flutter over my head, scratching my neck. I crawled over the bare ground, the dogs barking and growling ferociously. The male grabbed my pants leg and tore off a piece. He stood there shaking the cloth as if it were a dead animal. This is when I took flight, past what was left of the gate, barely making it to the car before the dogs were on me again.
I sat stunned in the car watching her remove her wig and bandana while tugging at the skirt. Giving me the evil eye, she slammed what was left of the screen door, cursing at the top of her voice. From the open window she shouted, “Nosy old white trash, interrupting my program. Hope the dogs’ bit you good, yes sir, interrupting my program. Dirty white trash. How can a decent woman make money with people like you? Git, I said, git before I send the Gris Gris.”
*Note: Gris Gris is a
Cajun term that usually means to put a curse on someone. Usually in jest, but I'm positive not in this case.